Gold star anything has always come across as incredibly stupid.
I've been told I wasn't really childfree because before I realised I did not and do not ever want kids, I was pregnant twice, with disastrous results each time: I have never actually had a baby that lived.
WTF. Why do these hypothetical things matter. I suppose in some AU you might have grown up to become a man or to marry one and in some AU I might have 12 kids, but...in the reality-based continuum, you are a lesbian, I am childfree, and who the fuck cares?
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I've been told I wasn't really childfree because before I realised I did not and do not ever want kids, I was pregnant twice, with disastrous results each time: I have never actually had a baby that lived.
WTF. Why do these hypothetical things matter. I suppose in some AU you might have grown up to become a man or to marry one and in some AU I might have 12 kids, but...in the reality-based continuum, you are a lesbian, I am childfree, and who the fuck cares?