Roz! The first question doesn't permit a yes or no answer! In case of doubt, my 'yes' is to the party, not to the mourning, and for the second question, the answer is 'both' - restaurant with your intimates, then the pub for all the other people (including people you've previously known only online?) who want to celebrate your birthday with you.
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Date: 2009-06-13 12:14 am (UTC)