"taken it upon herself to not only frame her definitions, but to seek to impose them upon total strangers. By doing that she declares that she considers herself to be superior, and trans people therefore inferior"

Okay I think this is what you are referring to. Yes I frame my own definitions and ideas as everyone does. I only seek to impose them through debate, I have no power to impose them at all. In fact I ma vastly outnumbered here.

I do not think I am superior at all. Yes I think my definitions and ideas are right and yours are wrong, but I don't think that makes me superior. My girlfriend doesn't agree with all my beliefs around transgenderism, but I don't think I am superior to her either. We just have different views.

And actually I am beginning to get all quite fond of you here.